Author Archives: Richard

Fluid Loading Piss

We’re running a quick errand today, so I Fluid Load before I go. I chug a bottle and a half of water, and then 45 minutes later, we’re out the door. We get to Menard’s and not too long after … Continue reading

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I Can’t Stop Peeing!

I Fluid Load before we run to Cosco today, and by the time we arrive, I really need to piss. I head into the men’s bathroom and see one guy at the first urinal (in the corner). The second and … Continue reading

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The Bruno Mars Concert

Me, and a group of my friends had a busy night a while back… We were going to a Bruno Mars Concert! :) It all started with a two hour drive from our home to a hotel near the stadium … Continue reading

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Bathroom Stalls Feel Weird!

So tonight, we’re going out to eat at a steakhouse. We’re meeting some friends there, and before I leave the house I fluid load with one and a half bottles of water. It’s Friday, there’s a full moon out, and … Continue reading

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Fully Desensitized ???

I’m peeing in the small bathroom next to the kitchen yesterday afternoon. I’m pissing in the toilet and of course, I have the door wide open. Why? Because I’m desensitizing! …And the fact that it’s just two guys who live … Continue reading

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Peeing at Krogers

We go out to eat for lunch yesterday at my favorite restaurant. I didn’t Fluid Load before hand, just went like normal. I had a root beer and a salad and that was it. Lunch was quick and we were … Continue reading

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I Am Still Ashamed

Dave (a fellow Recovering Paruretic), and I have emailed each other about our Shy Bladder journeys. If you remember from previous posts, Dave is an IPA support group leader in Wisconsin… But, more accurately he says: “I am currently the … Continue reading

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Do you Really Need a Pee Buddy?

Following my last post about how a Pee Buddy can make you stronger and can help you overcome Paruresis, let’s turn the tables… Do you really need a Pee Buddy? Is it really necessary? Can you do it alone? Let’s … Continue reading

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A Pee Buddy Makes You Strong!

I was watching NATGEO the other night, more specifically “The Numbers Game“. The show was about “toughness“. It talked about the different ways to make yourself physically and mentally tougher. And one of the ways to strengthen yourself was to … Continue reading

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How Alcohol Affects Paruresis

I often wonder, if I drank, how different my life would be. I never drink as a young adult, I didn’t drink at all in my 20’s. I may have had one small sip of champagne at New Year’s, but … Continue reading

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